Consultation with experts Prof.Dr.Wimpie Pangkahila sexology, Sp.And
"Frankly, I often compare the ex-husband with her husband now. First, with the late, I always had an orgasm several times. So every touch, I feel satisfied. Conversely, a husband now, I rarely have an orgasm.
I dare not deliver this, afraid she was offended. Married a year, I just double orgasm. I am disturbed by this situation. Now I am lazy and do not want to deal. This situation makes the husband sometimes annoyed. Why the deceased I always have an orgasm, even multiple times, but with no husband present?My now deceased or impaired? How can I be satisfied again as before? " 


IN, Jakarta 

Inhibition of husband
sexual relations is determined by the quality of sexual function both parties as a couple. If either party sexual function is disturbed or not optimal, the couple will also be disturbed. So, if someone is having a sexual dysfunction, may cause couples who experience sexual dysfunction. There are many causes that affect sexual function, which is basically divided into two groups, namely physical and psychological factors. The cause of certain diseases such as physical, hormone levels decrease, and unhealthy lifestyles. The cause of the psychic, among others, boredom, disappointment, stress, and communication is hampered. So if your husband is now almost never orgasm, while the husband had always felt, means something is inhibiting. These barriers seem to come from husband . The problem is, what obstacles are bothering you.To find out, maybe you can evaluate what you are experiencing or feeling with her ​​husband, especially during sexual intercourse. Some things you need to think about is as follows. First, how do you communicate and your husband? Is there barriers in everyday communication? Second, is there any psychological problems that are holding you back when having sex? Is there an attitude that your husband feel uncomfortable? Third, how the husband's sexual function, particularly the ability to control erection and ejaculation quickly so as not to happen? Fourth, if sex position feels comfortable for you so it is receiving enough stimulation? If there is one or more of the above, that is the cause you do not orgasm. Thus, it's not unusual that your husband was able to give sexual satisfaction to you, even beyond older than the husband now. With a husband once, may not occur as above obstacles. So to solve your problem, try to first know what causes it. Furthermore, the causes were addressed together. However, if you want to provide treatment in a professional manner, so you and your husband must consult with experts. For example, if the cause because the husband had an erection or ejaculation problems too quickly, the husband should receive treatment.

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